Why Women Prefer Girth

What creates pleasure for women during sexual intercourse?

It’s no secret that women tend to place more importance in penis girth over length. A recent study conducted by SPAN lab in California highlighted this fact when they found that women could more reliably judge girth over length, suggesting that they pay more attention to penis circumference. Using 3D erect penis models, they found:

In fact, women were generally very accurate in identifying the same model at both immediate and delayed recall. When they did make errors, they slightly underestimated model length. One possible explanation is that women care more about circumference, so they may attend to it more.

The way a woman’s anatomy has evolved explains the reason for this preference. The clitoris, which is usually identified as simply the small external structure that is packed with nerve endings, is actually a very large internal network of erectile tissue that responds to sexual arousal. The only part that is external is the glans clitoris, also known as the delicate little pearl that wants all the attention!

The clitoris is mostly internal and covers almost the entire pelvic floor.

The more extensive internal structure of the clitoris explains the fascination with thickness of an erection over length of an erection. Beyond the glans, the clitoris extends back and inward like an inverted “V” on each side of the vaginal opening. Next to those ‘legs’ are vestibular bulbs, one on each side of vaginal opening. These are almond-shaped areas of erectile tissue – similar to the corpus spongiosum in men – that fill with blood during arousal becoming firm and pushing outward on the labia. There are also areas of erectile tissue surrounding the urethra (just in front of the vaginal opening) and underneath the area of the perineum (between the vaginal opening and the anus).

There is pleasure in her erectile tissue when there is pressure against it.

During sexual arousal, all of this erectile tissue fills with blood to form a cuff around the entire vaginal opening. When there is vaginal penetration, a woman will feel pressure against all of this erectile tissue, resulting in a pleasurable sensation. Perhaps the best comparison is the feeling that a man has when he squeezes his erection in his hand, creating pressure against the erectile tissue. Not only is this feeling delicious all on its own, but it also that pressure also serves to create a little tugging and pulling on the entire clitoral structure when there is movement in and out of the vagina. This is a major source of stimulation for women during vaginal intercourse since the clitoris is blessed with so many nerve endings!

Learning how to create the sense of pressure can give a woman a great deal of pleasure.

It’s not difficult to see why women enjoy the sensation of girth during penetration. Men can also learn to give their female partner maximum stimulation during intercourse using the shaft of their erection to rub against the sides of the vaginal opening, creating the sensation of more thickness. Stimulation of the entire clitoral structure from penetration is the main way that women are able to reach ‘vaginal’ orgasms when not directly touching the head of the clit. It’s not surprising then why women tend to focus much more on girth than they do on length.

 

Dr. Castellanos is a psychiatrist specializing in sex therapy for over 25 years, including treatment with bio-identical hormones, and functional medicine consultations. You can follow her on Instagram at thesexmd, Facebook at The Sex MD, and X at @DrCastellanos.

12 Comments

  1. niyla styers February 27, 2016 at 11:16 pm - Reply

    women love fat cocks

  2. Glenn Johnson June 28, 2016 at 7:14 pm - Reply

    That’s great. So I’ll just make my penis thicker. Oh wait!! I can’t do that either. Oh well. I guess my life of virginity will continue.

    • Madeleine Castellanos August 16, 2017 at 6:43 pm - Reply

      Wow – so negative on yourself! There are actually penile sleeves that men can wear to increase their girth when erect.

  3. Murssy August 4, 2016 at 5:54 pm - Reply

    It is better like you said it give a long feeling of pleasure in the in and out to the clit

  4. Ralph Rankin November 19, 2016 at 11:58 am - Reply

    My cock is a little over 7 inches around. Thicker than hell. It’s almost the same length. I feel better after reading your article!

  5. Rajesh December 21, 2016 at 5:51 am - Reply

    Great article!! I never knew that women prefer girth over size ;p
    Thank god i am saved

  6. Tracy February 23, 2017 at 2:53 pm - Reply

    This may not relate directly to the article, however I would really like anew answer to this. When I am having sexi have the urge to pee and if I go to the restroom I do pee. It’s very distressing. Even when I do kegels it turns me on but I also get the urge to pee please help is something wrong with me????

    • Madeleine Castellanos August 16, 2017 at 6:49 pm - Reply

      When the erectile tissue of the clitoral-vaginal-complex is stimulated, a woman can get the sensation that she has to pee. A woman can also get pleasure and even orgasm from doing Kegel exercises because it is creating pressure (and sometimes pleasure) over the Pudendal nerve. Sounds perfectly normal to me. You may want to check out this article on the G-spot.

  7. Mark williams May 10, 2017 at 12:34 pm - Reply

    HI, so penis girth is important.

  8. Randy June 25, 2017 at 9:14 pm - Reply

    My wife left me for another man who had more girth then me and the same length , it’s been 4 years and she came back after leaving him. We’ve had sex but Idk it just doesn’t seem like I’m doing it for her I’ve ask her but she told me not to ask , I’ve face the fact that he made her orgasm better and bigger then I can , my girth is 4.5 his is 5.5 or larger she said , sex with him was better wasn’t it?

  9. dan September 26, 2017 at 5:55 am - Reply

    I have read that Scorpio women are the most sexual of all but I believe that all the other signs are just as sexual because they enjoy sex just as much. What do you think on what I have just asked.

    • Madeleine Castellanos October 23, 2017 at 5:15 pm - Reply

      There are so many factors that go into being sexual or feeling sexual – attitudes, what is learned growing up, self-esteem, positive versus negative experiences, etc. – so it is very short-sighted to use an astrological sign as the only measure.

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