Q: I have difficulty with the message that sex is only about the woman’s pleasure with so much pressure about how to please her and focused on HER orgasm. It makes me feel self-conscious about anything and everything that I do with a woman in bed […]
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Willing Yourself to Arousal
It seems that more and more, our society is taking on a nonchalant, almost dismissive attitude toward sexual behavior. Part of what people are led to believe is that they should be able to become aroused with a certain set of stimuli just by willing themselves to do […]
Orgasms Like You Never Had Them Before
Most women need some sort of stimulation of their clitoris in order to reach orgasm. But even if a women reaches orgasm, that doesn’t necessarily mean it is a strong or powerful orgasm. And it certainly doesn’t guarantee that her orgasm will be earth-moving. So […]
Younger Guy – Older Woman
It’s pretty well known that there are many younger men who have a real preference for older women. It’s not all about the woman being a “cougar” either. This is real and powerful attraction for many guys. But why does a woman in her 40’s […]
Differences for Sex Start in the Brain
It’s no mystery to most people that women and men are different when it comes to sex. Obviously, we try to make these differences work to our benefit. But oftentimes, the result can be more frustrating than anything else. Not to mention, men don’t understand why […]
What Do You Feel During Sex
For most people, it’s fair to say that one of the goals of sexual encounters is to experience physical pleasure. Of course, there are many different reasons that people choose to have sex – to stroke your ego, to feel attractive to your partner, to feel love and […]
Myths and Misunderstandings About Sex
There is so much anxiety, hopes, and expectations surrounding sex, but seems like little truthful or helpful information to balance that out. Sex ed in schools, when you can find it, is primarily concerned with the process of reproduction, but not so concerned about giving info on the […]
Diabetes – The Slow Killer of Your Sex Life
Diabetes is a progressive disease that can debilitate one’s body organ by organ when left out of control. It’s most famous for contributing to heart disease, stroke, peripheral vascular disease, blindness, renal failure. But long before any of these take place, diabetes can kill your sex […]
Do Women Need Testosterone
Perhaps you feel that you no longer have any interest in sex or sexual pleasure as you used to in the past? Maybe your brain is cooperating, but you feel that you body has jumped ship because your clitoris is just not as sensitive as it used to […]
Stroking the Clitoris
Pleasure in sex is all about personal preferences. Despite what the media tells us that we should want or expect, the wide range of possibilities makes the world our little oyster. And if the clitoris were the pearl, there would be a multitude of ways to polish her […]
