Oral sex is often a topic of much interest because so many women enjoy it greatly, and so many men are curious as to how to use oral sex to please their female partner. Although there is quite a bit of variation from woman to woman as to what they like and what their preferences are, there are some guidelines that a person can follow to maximize the oral sex experience for their partner.
The best approach to learning how to give a woman oral sex is to ask her “Teach me . . .” Women often have a sense of how they like to be touched, where, with how much pressure and speed. Remember that when you are asking a woman to teach you, it’s about finding out what she likes. This does not necessarily translate to another woman, so even if you have had a previous partner that likes oral sex a certain way, it is worthwhile to find out what your current partner likes.
Next, when performing oral sex, you should try your best to be relaxed. Any hesitation or anxiety may be interpreted negatively by your partner and can be a source of distraction or turn off. If a woman thinks that you are not into it, she is not going to be into it. The best is when you can let yourself go and really eat her out. Attitude and enthusiasm are important.
Remember that women’s sexual arousal builds up gradually, and it can progress more slowly than a man’s arousal. For that reason, it is always best to start giving a woman oral sex slowly and softly. She may be very sensitive, especially at the start, and going too hard or too fast can be overwhelming. Some women cannot tolerate direct contact with their clitoris and need to have the area pretty wet for it to be comfortable. Others will prefer that you always lick across the clitoris over the skin that covers it so that you don’t have direct contact with it. Some will prefer that you incorporate licking over the U-Spot as well. By going slow you have a chance to explore the area and find out just what she likes and where. A good example to follow is thinking about how you would lick an ice-cream cone. You can start off with a wide, soft tongue and take it from there. This is also less tiring, so you can go on for a longer period of time. If she wants you lick harder or have a pointier tongue, she will let you know.
Men, do not underestimate the amount of razor stubble on your face and how this feels. If a man has not had a shave in over 8 hours, his razor stubble could approximate the grain of 120 grit sandpaper, which is pretty abrasive. Sometimes a little pressure from the chin or upper lip can feel nice, but not if you’re exfoliating the top layer of musocal tissue. If you think back to the ice-cream example, it may help you remember: while eating an ice-cream cone, you wouldn’t stick your chin in it. So if you have razor stubble, make sure it’s only lips and tongue are contacting the area.
Once you have found the right spot, women need repeated stimulation in the same area in order to reach orgasm. Remember that orgasm alone should not be the only focus of oral sex. Heightened arousal, lubrication, and pleasurable sensations are all important whether or not she reaches orgasm. Because good oral sex means spending a little time downstairs, make sure to find yourself a comfortable position that you can maintain for at least ten minutes. Don’t just lick for one minute then move on. If the position she prefers is too hard on your neck, try lifting her hips up by placing a pillow underneath them, or by having her on her side and resting your head on the inside of her thigh. Also, you do not have to tolerate being suffocated or having your head squeezed by her legs, so use your hands on the inside of her thighs to remind her if needed.
Every woman is different, so let her be your guide and don’t hesitate to communicate with her for a mutually pleasurable experience. May you eat heartily and regularly!
I am the MASTER OF TOUGUEFOO, So i hav been told. Honestly,,,, ITD ALL ABOUT HER!!! N GUYZ,,,, DONT FORGET THE (G SPOT)!!!!!!!
Naturally, use fingertips and lips. If whole, moist smooches around the neck may get the juices in the vagina going – what do you think kissing her down there can make? Let’s go further. At the time you experience she’s completely ready, I would recommend to accelerate the pace and also to increase the tension. At this point feel free to be a little harder. Then simply consider using your hands just by slipping a pair of fingers in the woman’s vagina. Accomplish this little by little until your mouth accelerate. The fist should be faced palm-up and 2 fingers slightly curved (we’re aiming for the G spot right here, let’s wait and watch if it’s going to give good results). Slip the fingers in for an inch and after that get them out… repeat that a few times. Then move them a few inches… and so a few times. Once you sense it’s getting broader, then feel free to get further as well as rougher.
Of course, always let her guide you to what she’s ready for. Thanks.